How I Set Up My First Speaking Tour

It was 2012. I’d been working a 9-5 job for four years while getting my master’s degree, writing a book and speaking once a month at conferences and colleges. I’d just finished my degree, self-published my book and quit my job, when my dad said, “Tiff, why are you working full-time? Why don’t you quit your job and try traveling and speaking, and just see what happens? After all, you have nothing to loose–you’re single!”

It was the craziest idea. But it felt SO RIGHT.

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The Wedding Night Talks Are Here!

The Wedding Night Talks!!

What You Need to Know About Sex for Your Wedding Night

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Ladies, I am SO EXCITED to announce a brand-new 10-part video series called: “The Wedding Night Talks!” These videos cover everything I would have wanted to know about sex before my wedding night, and I think they’ll be so helpful for you as well!

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What NOT to Do on a Date

The original version of this post was published on Project Inspired. Read the original here.

I’ve done some very embarrassing things around cute guys—such as being so caught up in trying to seem cool that I didn’t see a garbage can in the road…and ran it over with my car. (Yup, true story.) Or thinking, during the first hour of our first date, that I’d found the guy I was going to marry. (Only I hadn’t. I very much hadn’t.)

As the years passed, I started to learn from my mistakes. I realized there are some things you just should not do on a date—especially not on a first date! So I’ve put them all in a list here, and I’m hoping they can help you, too (or at least provide you with a few laughs).

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When God Asked Me to Give $1,000 (That I Didn’t Have) (A Thanksgiving Story)

This is an edited version of an article originally published on Project Inspired–click here to read the original.

I was working out on the treadmill, minding my own business while reading David Platt’s book Radical. And that’s when God dropped the directive into my heart:

“I want you to give $1,000 to your friend’s mission organization.”

I shook my head and squirmed a little inside. That wasn’t God. No way. He knew what my bank account held, and it wasn’t $1K!

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How Suffering Has Become a Gift

Suffering is a catalyst.

Recently I’ve heard several people make comments like this: “God hates sickness.” “God does not promote suffering.”

Maybe that’s true. A few years ago I would have said, “Amen.” But now…I’m starting to wonder if we miss something huge when we believe that. If we miss the power of Christ in us when we suffer with Him.

I’ve spent my life so afraid of suffering.

Trying to avoid it at all costs. Only to discover…it can also be beautiful. In such an unexpected way.

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How to Stop Comparing Yourself

Because of the world we live in, there is a trap that we can all fall in if we are not careful…the trap of comparison.

Comparison does not make you feel better about yourself. It doesn’t change anything! Comparison is unhealthy but it is something that too many of us do. How do we stop comparing ourselves? I think there are a few practical steps that we can take to stop the act of comparing and I would love to share them with you!

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Summer Book List for the Christian Girl

I know what you all are thinking, “it’s summer and the last thing I want to do is read a book!” Trust me when I say I AM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU.

I need to be transparent with you all. I am the worst reader. Like the worst reader you have ever met. I will start a book and continue to work on it for months. So when Tiffany brought up the idea of writing a post about books, I secretly prayed that I would not be the one to write it, but here I am. 😂 I guess the Lord has a funny sense of humor.

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